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SPARK: Igniting Faith, Family, and Revival
Wendy reveals what my mother was like before she married at 18
Some of life's most illuminating moments come when we glimpse our parents through the eyes of those who knew them before we existed. In this deeply personal episode, I sit down with Wendy, my mother's childhood best friend, to uncover memories and stories about who my mom truly was.
Wendy paints a portrait of an extraordinary young woman – brilliant, athletic, and universally adored. Growing up as next-door neighbors, they spent countless afternoons playing tennis and navigating the challenges of adolescence together. According to Wendy, my mother was destined for academic excellence, likely heading toward valedictorian status before her life took an unexpected turn when she married my father on her 18th birthday.
What makes this conversation particularly poignant is learning about the challenging family dynamics my mother navigated. With her parents divorced, siblings away at college, and addiction issues affecting family members, her home life was far from stable. Yet somehow, she maintained what Wendy describes as a "pristine" presence – never showing signs of the struggles surrounding her.
The most heart-wrenching moment comes when Wendy shares what she would say to my mother now: "I wish I could have protected you. I wish I knew what you had gone through." These words reveal the deep bonds of friendship and the protective instinct that remains decades later.
This episode isn't just about my personal family history – it's about the universal experience of discovering our parents as complete human beings with dreams, struggles, and relationships that existed before us. Whether you're curious about your own family history or appreciate authentic human stories, this conversation offers a window into how the people we love are shaped by relationships we may never fully understand.
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Welcome back. This is Maria, and today I'm joined by one of my mom's best friends growing up, wendy. Can you say hi? Hello. We had such a lovely time talking about memories and growing up and Wendy just has so many beautiful memories of my mom and I just invited her today to share a few of them. Wendy, can you tell me about your earliest memories about my mom?
Speaker 2:Well, we lived next door to each other in two different houses growing up and your mom was just the smartest one on the street, the prettiest one on the street, the best athlete, and we used to spend a lot of time. I spent a lot of time at her house and just playing and doing things that kids did and matchbox cars and all sorts of different things.
Speaker 1:What was one of your favorite memories?
Speaker 2:with her. We played a lot of tennis together and she was always really good and I wasn't so good, but we were taught by the same teacher and that was kind of how we would spend our afternoons. When we weren't in sports in middle or high school was playing tennis. Were you at the same school? Yes, we were at the same school. And how did she do in school? She was such a brilliant student and so smart and you know, I was telling you earlier I'm sure she would have been valedictorian of her class. She just excellent student.
Speaker 1:And when did you lose contact with her?
Speaker 2:When she married your dad.
Speaker 1:And did she tell you that she was dating someone?
Speaker 2:you know, we had heard that your dad had started teaching her tennis and playing more tennis with her and she was spending more time with him. And so really those last couple of years that I was in college, you know I had heard about it but I didn't, and I would see your mom but I don't think I ever met your dad. And then, you know, I remember the day that she got married on her 18th birthday. Just, you know, hearing that she had left and got married, was that surprising to you? Very surprising, very surprising.
Speaker 1:Did you guys ever talk about your future goals and dreams together?
Speaker 2:I don't. I don't know that we ever did that, but she certainly would have been on a path to college and probably playing college tennis, and yeah.
Speaker 1:Didn't. What was my mom's home life like? How was her siblings and her parents?
Speaker 2:Well, it was challenging. By this time her dad had moved out and her siblings were in college. My sister, who I was close with, had started modeling in high school and had started to get into some addiction and things like that, and so it was. I would say it would have been a hard household.
Speaker 1:Did my mom ever confide in you, in how she felt about her parents' sudden divorce?
Speaker 2:No, but it was pretty public that everybody knew kind of the similar situation in my house. What had happened?
Speaker 1:Well, there had been adultery and my father moved out and you know, I know it was it was hard for your mom and just a hard kind of a hard thing to grow up with Mm-hmm, and was there any addiction with my uncle, my mom's brother there?
Speaker 2:was. I just don't know when that started he was. He was several years. I just don't know when that started he was several years. I think he was three years older than me, but more than that in school, so I knew later in his life he had had that?
Speaker 1:Did my mom show any signs of addiction?
Speaker 2:No, no, no, your mom was, as the only word that comes to my mind is pristine I'm not sure if that's the right word to use but just everybody's friend.
Speaker 1:Everybody loved her, just amazing, and my dad had told us that she was abused as a child. Did she ever tell you about that, or how did she mask that?
Speaker 2:I think, just like a lot of people do, I didn't know about it, I didn't know Right.
Speaker 1:If you could say one thing to her now, what would you say?
Speaker 2:Oh, I guess I would say, mandy, I wish I could have protected you, I wish I knew what you had gone through. Your daughter is an amazing, amazing woman and mother and wife and businesswoman and just helps so many people and she's got the most beautiful kids.
Speaker 1:Gideon saying hi right now. Say hi, buddy. Say hi, Wendy. Thank you so much for being here. Thank you for being a light to everyone that you are around. Thank you for the countless homeless people that you feed every single week and I know that they are so thankful for the light that you bring to them. And if anyone would like to hear more about how they can get involved in feeding the homeless in Palm Beach County, you can reach out and I'm sure we can find a spot for you to volunteer in. And thank you, Wendy, for being here.
Speaker 2:Thank you, maria. It's always wonderful to see you. Thank you, god bless everyone.
